Happy New Year
Below is a piece written by my respected friend, Sharon M Reid
The Year I Choose to Begin Again, a 2026 Resolution
Sometimes a new year doesn’t arrive with answers.
It arrives quietly.
Like a pause.
Like a long breath finally leaving the body.
And in that quiet, a question rises honest, unguarded.
Is there still room for me to begin again?
It’s easy to believe the hardest seasons get the final word.
Easy to let mistakes, missed chances, and years spent surviving convince us that the story has already said what it needed to say.
Easy to mistake exhaustion for an ending.
But 2026 is not here to judge where I’ve been.
It is here to meet me where I am.
So this year, I stop dragging every old version of myself into the present.
I keep the lessons the ones earned through effort, loss, and endurance and I release the weight that was never meant to be carried forever.
I let the past rest.
Life has never unfolded in straight lines.
It bends.
It pauses.
It breaks open not to punish, but to make space.
There are moments that take something from you.
And there are moments that quietly give you back more than you expected.
In 2026, I trust that forward doesn’t have to be loud to be real.
That healing can be slow and still honest.
That light can return gently, without announcement.
Some days this year will stretch me.
Some will steady me.
Some will simply ask me to show up and breathe and that will be enough.
I stop measuring my life by what went wrong.
I begin honoring it by what I survived.
When doubt appears, I remind myself.
I am allowed to begin again without permission.
I am allowed to hope without guarantees.
I am allowed to move forward without having everything figured out.
This year, I choose courage over fear.
Presence over regret.
Compassion over self-judgment.
I show up to my life as it is imperfect, unfinished, alive.
I allow moments of peace without questioning how long they will last.
I welcome joy without suspicion.
I let rest exist without guilt.
2026 is not a test.
It is not a deadline.
It is not a demand to prove anything.
It is a doorway.
And this year, I step through it not rushed, not afraid, not carrying everything at once
but grounded, open, and willing to live what comes next with intention.
This is the year I choose to begin again.
And that choice is enough.
